This change is a large financial blow to me. I'm going to have to rapidly assess how to deal with that, as well. Probably starting with forcing M to deal with the house we own together. I CANNOT any longer support her by being the sole payor of the mortgage on that property. This situation FORCES me to a point of having to press her to pay the mortgage herself, or better yet, buy me out. Or sell the place. The status quo won't work.
I can afford my lifestyle and choices that are likely going to be available with a new placement at the employer -- if I only have to pay MY expenses and not the old "joint" expenses. She will have to find a way to "step up" or do something..... Or lose the house, together....
I also have a very nice Ford F-150 that I probably better get serious about trying to sell. For the time being, if I can get rid of it, I should be able to pick up another cheap around town vehicle that could be minimally insured. With no truck payment and low insurance payments, that too would help massively in my new financial situation to come.
OTOH, I think I have to continue making at least basic progress with my own house. Certainly getting the carpeting installed as planned. Roof?? Needed, but I'm not sure what I'll do with this situation being what it is....
We'll just have to see.
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