Flying by each other I guess

Well, the first difficult conversation occurred over the last half hour or so.

From what she says, she thought we were exclusive and didn't realize I was continuing to see others.

That is much different from what I thought had occurred as an understanding between us.

A2 was clearly very concerned about her sexual safety -- which I reassured her about.

She checked the license tab of B's car and found that whoever it belonged to also has an October birthday. Made a point of noting that I hadn't responded to her being at the door....

Talked about how she was happy to see my truck as she wanted to let me know she'd definitely decided to extend the stay in Detroit next weekend and try to create a new tradition of staying over on the Sunday after the Feb conference and having the really, really fine breakfast as we did last year.

But she also noted she'd stopped unexpectedly... and even made mention that when she stopped by a week ago (last Thursday night), she was pretty scared of finding ssomeone else here....

So, clearly she's been back and forth on what she does and doesn't believe / hope is going on.

Then her mood swung toward recovery... and she wondered if I still wanted to extend the Detroit stay -- I told her I didn't care to do much differently than we had been...

She also threw out the idea of my coming down to A2 on Saturday -- but I told her I have a meeting to deal with and wouldn't be able to do that until late in the day if at all.

We'll see what tomorrow and the next few days bring....

But, I'm not willing to be exclusive or deceptive about whether we are exclusive....