I have a little concern about disagreeableness that arose this past Wednesday or Thursday. I forget which. I was quite tired from being awake and up too late, etc. Apparently wasn't warm and friendly enough at our usual noontime phone conversation, and apparently my "indifferent attitude" put her off and made her pretty steamed.
When she came by after work, she was kind of spoiling for a fight. Accusing me of being manipulative and thinking she's highly dependent on me, and so on.... Frankly, a little too much like the accusations I was experiencing with M in the latter years.....
This seems to happen once in a while. The question that is running through my mind, though is.... was this really projection?? I have to wonder if these are questions and concerns running through her mind and emotions that she needs to be posing to herself..... or maybe they're rattling around and she hasn't really quite realized it....
I am a little concerned about the accusation toward me, since I am not remotely aware of any such controlling behavior, etc....
Is it my lack of self awareness?? Or hers??
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