Such fun tonight

Well, I went over tonight -- supposed to be to go over some financial stuff and questions and to finish mowing the lawn...

Naturally, she had to start in on other stuff first. I kept trying to get to why I was there, but she had to carry on -- I frankly don't recall the details -- only that we didn't cover all that much of what I THOUGHT I was there for.

I did cover some important areas: the amount of $$ I've moved to joint accounts, per my records, the deposits into the stock account (and the lack of withdrawals thereof) as well as the current valuation (hey, looks like about an 8% return annually, and that's with the market low over the last few weeks.)

Anyway, I have a little recall of one stupid-ass thing she carried on about. Seems the nightstand area from my (former) side of the bed got all cleaned up. I recall doing it one day, but not when.... Well, SHE'S decided that I must have been in the house WITHOUT permission when I did that bit of cleanup.

I wasn't (but I don't really recall when I did clean it up). But, she's really convinced herself that the only explanation is that I was there when she wasn't and without her permission.

She's wrong, but can't seem to hear me explain otherwise. I haven't been in the house, or even on the premises without her approval ever since she demanded that.