Now the threats have started

I suppose it was inevitable. The threats, veiled and direct both, have started over the last few days. I quit calling her or responding sometime around Tuesday or Wednesday after she got rude and incivil in her tone and messages. That lack of contact, even negative interactions, drives her crazy - but that's not my problem. It's hers.

But, as a result, over the last day and a half she's taken to leaving me voicemails that threaten to "expose" my financial improprieties or something. There isn't anything to expose, but she's trying to act like there is.

She talks of a paper trail. Of incriminating evidence. Of going to my employer's HR dept with ??? Of the possiblity that "you'll lose your cushy position."

Accusations of "spending all my disability money on yourself"

on and on.

Facts won't bear her out.

She left a firm demand, many times, that "you call me BY 9:00 a.m. and plan to have a serious discussion about all the financial issues by 10 a.m." yadayada

I simply voicemailed back that I got her threatening phone calls and would not be responding at this time due to the need to keep my head clear for my job duties.

Guess we will see whether she's going any further or not.

I think I have called her bluff and she's got nowhere to go with this crap!!