Business as usual. Last Saturday was a PITA when I went to the house to fix the mower and mow-- that gave M far more opportunity to engage with me than I wanted to allow. Lots of whining about money and what she has to do and all that.
Mostly, though, the contact has been almost nonexistent. I told her last week I wouldn't take / return her calls, and to the maximum extent possible I'm trying to stick to that.
Last night after work, her son went with me to try to muck out more of the garage. That gave her some more chances to act out with me -- she got pretty nutty and nasty. Her son didn't much care for it, and it was not lost on him that I tended NOT to start any conversation or engage in unnecessary interaction, no matter how much she tried to provoke me with nasty cracks, accusations and remarks.
Anyway, my lack of availability, response and all that is what it is. Whether it drives her crazy is NOT my problem.
I am actively trying to "shut down" to her on all levels including the energetic level. I may have to stop journaling about her at all in order to keep her out of any thoughts....
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