Threats and more threats

M is threatening:

Do you think that a civil court is going to NOT notice that once your income significantly increased you no longer had any use for me and, further, went so far as to continue keeping me out of our "joint" finances so that you could spend all of my money and as little of your income on our joint and individual expenses as possible? Do you really think that I will NOT drag you through every legal venue I can in order for you to get the comeuppance you so sorely deserve? Do you not know that one of my very best qualities (to your detriment) is being tenancious? Have you considered what could very well happen to your job once all of what you have done becomes common knowledge? I certainly would not want you to be my blue collar union president once all of what you have done to me comes to light. Have you thought about those ramifications?

Do the math. The paltry sum that you have contributed for the past year or so has put me in a position of having no reserve resources at all. What you have done with your money is your business, I suppose, and it's too bad that you have little reserve to show for it... but you have and always have had very bad spending habits....


Now, the fact of the matter is, I moved nearly $15000 from my personal account to the joint account during the last half of the year. $3600 more from my savings then and since.

And though she doesn't care to face facts, I've paid plenty of joint and my bills out of my personal checking. Plenty.

She imagines a bunch of squandering or some misappropriation of assets -- she can look all she wants. Neither happened. So there is nothing to find.