So, at the therapy session, the T surprised us both with her attitude about snooping on the partner's email (and by extension, phone). T's attitude was, "Whatever you need to do to deal with your trust questions/issues".
So.... another union leader called me yesterday to see if I was interested in a committee position. That call came from Traverse City.
B met my TC friend (more like former friend) some weeks back at a house party. TC and I scarcely talked. Anyway, B did comment and ask about it afterward. "You dated her some didn't you?" I stated that no, I would not really consider anything we did to be dating. Merely had been friends for a time....
Well, when I got the call and got done, I left it in my call log thinking, "I wonder if this will cause an issue".....
Sure enough....
"I'm going to ask you a question you're not going to like...." OK
"I saw a call on your phone with a 231 area code. Did you call TC because you're unhappy with me?"
Nope. Then I explained who called and the nature of the call, incoming.
B then apologized for the suspicion.
I'm trying to be not too bothered about it, but I am a little bit. Hence my journaling.
Fact is about TC that I would NOT call her unless I was altogether out of a relationship. I'm not sure my call would be welcome. And I know it would take a serious period of friendship first before anything there could be possible.... And, frankly, TC is a little crazy too I think. I'd have to think long and hard and be careful about getting too involved, methinks.
She's lovely. Very slender, almost anorexic looking, vegetarian, exercises excessively. I suspect compulsions are involved with the eating and the exercise.... and for relationships....well, I don't think she's terribly well-adjusted in that area....
Nuff said.
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