preparing for the conversation

Well, I'm going to have an extra session with my T tomorrow. We're going to talk about how to go about telling her that it's over.

We'd agreed to do "relationship" discussions FTF.... but, M is clearly going out of her mind wondering just how bad things are and where things stand.

So, Monday, my T (late in the session, but that was my fault) said that I should email her and pose the question, "Do you want to have the conversation about the status and future of this relationship over the phone, or wait until we can do so FTF"

That way, it becomes HER decision, and I'm not breaking a promise by speaking to it by phone if that's what she's wanting. Resolution, or whatever....

but I need to have it sorted through before laying the groundwork and having the conversation.

But, there is little doubt in my mind. It's time. Time to say exactly where things are. AT an end. That we cannot continue as a primary couple.... I don't know where it may end up someday, but what we have is not working and I donm't see it working as a significant other relationship or married, or whatever.

She's too needy, and I'm too tired of the BS and the drama.