Well, she saw her T today. I left her the run-down on the schedule of my folks' visit this a.m., so they reviewed that. Of course, her T "agrees with her that....." M probably shouldn't be around my mom, or if she is, probably won't be able to hold her tongue, etc, etc, not to mention how put on she is, no doubt to have to share her house, again, and all that.....
We met for lumnch today so she could debrief me. And run some of her stuff by me. Mostly stayed nonconfrontational. Observed that she didn't like to just be "informed", that she'd like to be consulted / discuss this stuff, etc. That Sept might be a better time in the future.... and she even got to some true reality....
the usual difficulties she feels between her and my mom..... ("they're NOT just feelings, their facts!!")
And, most truthfully of all:
"You're not so busy in the summer, so I get more of your time and attention and I don't want to share that very badly.....
Once again, it becomes obvious that she's only happy if she's the paramount concern in my life and of my attention..... that she can be OK as long as she is the center of my universe.
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