Wednesday, May 16, 2007

The rest of last Sat & Sun

actually went OK, once M was up, about, and full lucid. Essentially, I told her I just wanted to deal with things in a mindful way, let the previous night go, go on with Saturday and the weekend as planned and as if the meltdown had not occurred.

I made it plain that while I had concerns and upsets, I wasn't going to nurse the negativity. Quite the opposite.

I cuddled with her to help her recover..... at one point, she wanted to make love and I carefully demurred. Otherwise, the day / remainder of the weekend ended up going well, all in all. We went to some dinner late in the day, folllowed by a cute little play at a local community theatre.

She also asked if I was still OK to go to a special dinner place on Sunday. Told her yes, and she made a reservation at a "secret" restaurant.....

Sunday a.m., I offered to make love when it was time to go upstairs in the a.m. after breakfast and reading the paper for awhile. She decided that was a good way to start the day.... and it was.

We spent some time outside puttering, then headed to the restaurant.... NIce!! Fondue restaurant. Lots of fun..... we both enjoyed it, and she especially enjoyed MY getting a kick out of it.

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