A fight about lying when asked about appointment

So it came out last night that I lied when B asked if I was seeing or going to see my T. I knew that it'd cause a ruckus.  I expressed why - that I preferred that to be private and hadn't wanted to add to her relationship anxieties, etc. (She thought perhaps I was going to go to T like I did before - to work through how to break up.

I gave B some sense of what was covered and that nothing had come out that I felt required subsequent conversation between us. And, I had fully covered what I thought was the two major reasons for the relationship/commitment fear. That is Sarah and Linda.

I was troubled to find that she also continues to nurse wounds about "my friend Layla that you emailed and that friend Lori that you tried to get in contact with".

So, that's 4 transgressions I guess.

And I'm pretty bothered by the latter. She's never accepted my truthful explanation that my email to Layla was simply to be neighborly (single mom, struggling with school moved in to the neighborhood) and that I had NO INTEREST whatsoever in the woman.

Same with Lori. Old high school connection that my mom had let me know about. Lori was trying to recover from serious alcoholism and rehab and needed friends. Again, no interest on my part other than as a potential and supportive friend. (The lady is kind of homely in her FB pictures...)

Bothersome....