too much crazymaking

woke up this a.m. thinking about last night's extended conversation. She looped back over lots of old, negative history.... which is something she does when she's getting overwhelmed and there's too much crazymaking going on. I'm going to send her an email suggesting she cut the contact with both kids way back. One is making her crazy, the other is giving her details about the troubled brother that she doesn't want to hear and that is just crazymaking.