Words of wisdom

An excerpt from something a friend posted on the WTO group. So true. [emphasis is mine]

So take
a close look at yourself hun and realize that although you think you are in love
with him...you are only in love with what the illusion of what you thought he
was going to be able to give you. This [who he is now] is the real him. The rest was just a
show put on to get what he needed. Do you
really want to live with a man who is how he is now? This is him..this is what
you are going to have to put up with when you are with him. It will always be
your fault any and everything he does. Not a good way to live. You deserve
better. Take care of yourself first.