At one point last night she got into feeling rejected in some manner..... Mostly because at times she's angrily ready to move on from this relationship, other times, she's accusing me of "kicking me ot the curb". Often this happens within the same flow of consciousness. Minutes apart.
When she made the rejection observation, not really angrily, I asked for clarification.
She repeated how she's feeling / felt / is "devalued, discounted, by you and your mother" (case in point: M is still carrying resentment over my mom's remark on Mother's Day that M took to be another instance of my mom thinking M just freeloads or something....)
Anyway, she crystallized it like this, and this is what I want to think about:
"Devaluing and discounting ARE rejection"
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