Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Voicemail & Note

Of course, I no more than went to bed last night than she voicemailed me. More of the same.

Left this note for me as well (not bad, just transcribing it for my record):


"I know you hate notes fromn me. BUT, perhaps -- just perhaps -- you might try to be patient with me --

You, my family, and my sons, your family, the University [former employer] -- have all done a lot to piss me off -- And -- other the course of the years, I think I've done OK dealing with it. But I feel like I'm at a time now in my life that I really want to live -- and not by others' rules and constraints. Do you have any idea what I'm talking about? "


My thoughts:
I note that as usual, she points fingers everywhere else -- not much introspection or taking of responsiblity.... She believes she's done OK, yet, she has been terribly inconsistent with therapy, with medical compliance, with managing her own health.... etc.

On the last, I think she's examining the proposition of going out on her own. I'm ready to let her, but I'm not sure I'm ready to push her.

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