Last night, more went on

She had the TV on so loud downstairs that I could not sleep. About 12:30a, I came down and turned down the volume and turned it off becasue she was not in the room.

That caused some conflict because "I was listening to that" (from outside, on the deck, 30 feet away, with the sliding door closed).

Moments later, she came upstairs, "Did you have a little nap?" "No, haven't slept yet".

She tried to engage repeatedly in a conflict over property splitting, which I refused to do in the middle of the night.

Later, maybe 1:30 a.m., she sort of attempted to flop, literally, herself into bed. Flopped around (seemed to me to be an irritant), said something about how "I didn't take my meds tonight, so my guts probalby won't let me go to my T appt tomorrow."

I didn't say much about that.

She got up, but had to continue to harp and angrily engage. I offered to go to the guest room. She went downstairs, with nasty remarks.

I finally took myself off to the guest room.... which also infuriated her. Not long after I'd made the bed and settled in, she burst in and said, "Oh, what the hell ever".

I finally fell asleep, woke at 5:30 a, and moved to the master BR, (had to unlock the door) lest she think I was completely angry and withdrawn.

I'm not. This is just more of the same and it will be dealt with eventually. One of will probably have to leave before this summer is over. Quite maybe sooner.