Interestingly, this a.m. I find she's picked up a book that I started to read over Xmas break, and over which we had a huge disagreement. She'd been terribly resistant.... to reading "Should I Stay or Go? (about "controlled (negotiated) separation arrangements).
But then, she did start saying words and expressing thoughts that lead me to believe this weekend that she's begun exploring the idea of her leaving this house and being the one to live separately from here.
That makes more financial and physical sense. I can afford to keep and maintain this place. Frankly, I always expected that after a time, assuming no reconciliation (and I scarcely expect that) that I would have to put this place to rights and prepare it for sale (if sold it's to be.... and I am pretty ready to be back to a more urban environment..... we'll see).
so, maybe it will work out.
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