all through today.... I'm dutifully waiting for a post-doctor appt phone call to see if she still wants to get together for awhile before I go home (dinner or whatever).
Frankly, I've been apprehensive about it all day. Didn't help when I saw a cheap flight deal to get her away while I'm next quite busy (which ticks her off). Of course, I decided I should contact her to let her know about it....
So, I texted her. She called back.... sounded like she hadn't slept well.... sounded down and troubled.... But, I can't fix that..... she's got to find a way to handle HER emotions. Not my job to fix her feelings....
Well, she gets to go back to the house tomorrow.... One of the things she asked me yesterday afternoon when she was grinding on me a bit on the phone was to make arrangements to check in a day early for my meetings this week (organization provides hotel accommodations for certain committees, etc. So I did. That means once I leave tomorrow, I'm not back until Saturday.... A rest, perhaps, for both of us.
Meanwhile, she just called as I was typing this. Going to go meet her for dinner. When this came up last night by text, (She texted, "Would you like to meet me tomorrow night or at least see me for awhile...??" I suggested dinner, but also asked, "for fun & company, or for serious subject matter or both or neither?"
Her reply was, "Just to see one another. I'm not likely to feel up to seriousness & maybe nothing much at adll, depending how I feel."
So, off I go.... and we'll see just how light and carefree we keep it (won't change for that aspect on my part).
Oh, and this should surprise her. I just found out there's a community theatre musical that my schedule is free to go to Friday night. Might as well "invite her on a date...." She's been craving such....
Maybe I can keep her negativity at bay a few more days.....
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