No surprises

things got worse as the night wore on. text and phone calls. Accusations of not caring. Of abusing. All kinds of things.

Texted me so much, my inbox on my phone is 90 % full.

She called just before 10p, literally bouncing all over. She carried on about the cortisone shot and how "You know how that affects me and what bad shape I'll be in...." etc, etc. "

I said, "Fine, I'm coming home...."

minutes later she called to back me off on that. But, still we went round on some things. I finally got pissed and told that much of what she was saying was an outright lie and she needed to stop lying to herself and others.

That I'm AT the hotel because she asked me to. And, didn't stay home after an invite because she expressed discomfort / stress over my company. And angrily told her SHE needed to take some responsibility for what SHE"S caused here.

I am especially peeved, and bemused by the accusatory phone call about how, "Your up past your bedtinme (which she seems to define as 9:30p)). Funny how you can't stay out late with ME. " and on and on.

Yet another lie she tells herself -- conveniently forgetting all the times I've been out late doing karaoke with her, or other such. Conveniently fails to register that I'm regularly up, with her, to watch the 11:00 news and weather. Not always.

Nope, she equates the occasional dozing off mid-evening with going to sleep for the night.... or other ridiculousness.

What a pain in the ass.