7 to 8 hours of M venting and carrying on about the same stuff, plus a few new recent episodes of my offending her / hurting her feelings / devaluing her... etc, per her.
I got a bit angry once when I found she'd absconded with the pickup truck key.
I got tired of her yelling and ranting and raving even after I politely withdrew. Packed a quick bag and told her she had a choice: either stop yelling, or I would have to leave to go to a hotel for the night.
She said there's one more choice: I have LOTS of Xanax and I KNOW that will "do it". I told her I don't respond to that threat. She went and got a handful.....
I merely repeated that I would go upstairs and all I was requesting was that she stop yelling and ranting. She rudely and loudly said I should use earplugs!!
Then she started trying to make goodbye calls: to her sister, her kids. Got her younger boy on the phone. Been carrying on with him, more quietly, but carrying on..... for 1/2 hour plus at this point. She MUST have referenced the pills, as he switched lines and called me on the landline and asked that I go confiscate whatever she had because she was talking crazy.....
I did so. With him on the phone, there was no confrontation.... A remark or two was it. And apparently he didn't let on to his request of me to her.
As long as I'm having to deal with suicide / pill possibilities, I have removed all that I know of from her immediate purview.
We'll see how this night goes... and tomorrow might just be real decision time.
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