seeds that don't sprout

5. Why I have put hours and hours and hours into self-help, self-exploration, relationship therapy, personal therapy, and general self and relationship reflection for months and months but you NEVER want to or have time to engage in any constructive conversations

from her note. Well, I have to wonder why she's been doing all the above with virtually NO assistance from her T.

I also view most of her efforts as seeking some magic bullet to save this relationship. She's got a lot riding on it.... and she just can't face that she's pretty much worn out my good nature.

She thinks she's self aware, and yet, I see little self awareness on her part. She just doesn't see how troubled she is, which is very typical of a BPD person.

I know that my primary concern has to be for my own health and well being. Leave her and the rest to what will be.