From my online support group:
--- Mr Y wrote:
> If it was possible not to react to a BPD persons
> rage, anger, etc. -
> Letting them blow up - would things be back to
> normal after all that
> passed? So far I have been unable to 'stay cool' -
> eventually I get
> frustrated and blow up.... I'm just wondering if
> anybody has had
> success with that?
Mr Y,
Functional people recognize that the BPs rage is not
within the realm of sane behavior.
Functional people do not tolerate crazy behavior, so
"staying cool" might not really be a success.
Think of it this way...if each 5 minutes of rage were
equal to a beer...the "staying cool" approach might
lead you towards becoming an alcoholic.
Mr X
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