Monday, July 9, 2007

last night, OK then

Some attempts to get into unpleasant subjects, but not uncivilly. But, when I went to go to bed, at 10:30ish (wearying of the not-quite-pleasant interactions) she started pushing a bit.

Acted out over the night.

Lights on to come up stairs several times

Lots of noise going in and out of the patio slider at least twice in the middle of the night.

But, no attempt to wake me directly.

We disputed about it this a.m.... she only recalled going out on the deck at 6:00 a.m....
admitted she closes the door hard, "cause that's the only way it doesn't gap and let bugs in"
(bullshit).

She also claimed she only came upstairs, once.

Tells me she was probably a bit dissociative.

Her boy said all her messages were between midnight and 3 a.m., so I suspect she was far gone until then.


I do want to record the txt he sent me, though.... I think it's very troubling and very telling:

"So, I got some really great [VM] messages from mom last night. I would say u should probably have a trigger lock on that shotgun from what I can gather mom's up to!!"

Bear in mind, I found the shotgun laying on the table.

When I talked with him, he said that in one of the messages she left, she was wishing she knew where the ammunition was.

That's very sick behavior to inflict on your son, adult or not.

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